I empower faith-based women like you to recover well after discovering their husband's or significant others struggle with the dark places on the internet. Every Monday you'll receive encouragement and other carefully curated content to help you heal and find the freedom you desire.
Resting in a love that’s never caught off guard
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Growing up, we had people staying in our home all the time. My parents treated everyone the same, regardless of their name, status, or job title. That example stuck with me. Recently, I’ve had the opportunity to meet a few people I deeply respect for their writing and ministry. Each time, I’ve counted it a privilege to serve them as they serve others. And every encounter reminds me that, no matter who we are or what we’ve done, we all need grace. Consider This week I met Anne Graham Lotz—one of my favorite speakers and authors. She made a comment that stopped me in my tracks: “Jesus never had a new thought.” Why? Because Jesus is all-knowing. Always has been. “In the beginning the Word already existed. The Word was with God, and the Word was God. He existed in the beginning with God. God created everything through him, and nothing was created except through him. The Word gave life to everything that was created,[a] and his life brought light to everyone.” He knows your whole story. He knew it from the beginning of time. Nothing catches Him off guard—not the betrayal, not the fear, not even your doubts. Reflect Jesus sees you. And he’s not surprised by your pain or your process. He walks with you through it. What would it feel like to rest in that kind of knowing today? How can you let this truth shape the way you live your life? Your Connection Opportunity Staggered by betrayal? The 12-week Christ-centered Aftershock Recovery Breathe Again masterclass gives you the support, tools, and community to breathe again, find your footing, and rebuild a life you actually want. Begins September 9! If you’re ready for Christ-centered tools, community, and weekly support—click here to join us. We keep the class size small to encourage safe interactions. Take advantage of this cost-effective way to receive the hope and healing you desire. 🙏🏻 May I pray for you? Dear God, Thank you for seeing all of Reader—past, present, and future—and loving her still. Remind Reader that she doesn’t have to prove anything to you. Help her to rest in your steady presence. Amen. |
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I empower faith-based women like you to recover well after discovering their husband's or significant others struggle with the dark places on the internet. Every Monday you'll receive encouragement and other carefully curated content to help you heal and find the freedom you desire.
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