God’s timing feels impossible—but He’s still at work


Recently, Dave and I have faced several challenges. At times, I feel stymied, unsure which way to turn. We try one direction only to hit a roadblock, so we pivot. Other times, it feels like we’re treading water, trying to keep up.

Even when we know we’re exactly where God wants us for this season, questions still bubble up: At this age and stage in our lives? Really, God?

And then God surprises us. Amid the challenges, he shows glimpses of unexpected joy, lessons, or blessings that thrill our hearts.

Consider

Maybe you’re feeling way over your head right now.

It could be a damaged relationship, a job that isn’t going the way you expected, the loss of a friend or family member, a new location, or significant changes in your church home.

What is God trying to teach you through this situation? Have you taken it to Him?

A year ago, during a time of intense questioning, God reminded me to stop, listen, and do. Pause, bring your situation to Him, and ask:

  • Stop: What do You want me to learn here?
  • Listen: How should I respond?
  • Do: What is my next step?

Use this framework as a spiritual roadmap and watch what God reveals when you intentionally bring your challenges to Him.

Reflect

Proverbs 15:14 (CEB) reminds us:

“An understanding heart seeks knowledge; but fools feed on folly.”

Where are you seeking guidance and input in the area where you feel stuck, Reader? Are you turning to God first, asking for his wisdom, or are you relying solely on your own understanding—or even the opinions of others who might not have the full picture?

Take a moment to pause, bring your situation to God, and listen for his insight. Sometimes clarity comes from unexpected places when we seek it with an open, teachable heart.

🙏🏻 May I pray for you?

Dear God, Reader feels weighed down today by uncertainty, worries, and the twists and turns of life she doesn’t yet understand. You’ve promised to be near, guiding every step and opening paths only you can see. Today, reveal a clear, tangible answer to Reader’s prayer. Give her courage to step forward, trusting your timing and wisdom, even when it feels impossible. And as Reader follows you, fill her heart with awe, delight, and joy as she witnesses your power at work in ways only you could accomplish. Amen.

Kirsten D Samuel LLC

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