Let’s Talk About Valentine’s Day… Honestly


February showed up fast, didn’t it?
One minute it was “Happy New Year,” and now we’re already talking about Valentine’s Day. 💕

I’m over here holding my tea, blinking and trying to catch up.

What’s Been On My Heart

For the last 15 years, I’ve set a goal to read through the Bible each year. Since my mind likes to wander when something feels familiar, I switch translations often. It helps me stay present and really listen.

Last week, while reading Exodus 3, one phrase stood out to me: “Who am I?”
When God called Moses from the burning bush, that was his response.

And, honestly? I get it.

Sometimes, when God nudges me toward something new or stretching, my first instinct is to shrink back. To stay where it feels safe. To question whether I’m really the right person.

But I’ve learned this: when I take God’s hand and step forward anyway, He meets me there. And what feels scary at first often becomes sacred ground.

Something for You

February 14th is only two weeks away. 💝

If you’d like to celebrate Valentine’s Day without crowds or high prices, check out the ideas from LoveWhatMatters.com by clicking on the picture below.

Dave and I plan to celebrate at home this year—where we can slow down, laugh, and enjoy our relationship without rushing.

Which idea is your favorite?

🙏🏻 A Prayer for You

Thank you for loving Reader—always. You promise to give Reader strength, wisdom, and comfort in everything Reader walks through. You are amazing, God. When Reader struggles to believe in your unchanging love, give Reader tangible reminders of how deeply Reader is seen and cherished by you. And with Valentine’s Day approaching, if this is a painful season for Reader, please comfort Reader in ways only you can. If there is new hope and delight in Reader’s relationship, help Reader find creative, meaningful ways to celebrate that gift. Thank you, God, for being our perfect example of love. Amen.

Kirsten D Samuel LLC

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