Pause and see what God has done


The leaves are absolutely stunning around here these days. šŸ I love the riot of colors and the gentle sound they make as they drift to the ground.

Walking home from church this week, Dave and I found ourselves kicking through piles of leaves along the walkway—laughing as we remembered all those years of raking leaves into big heaps and tossing our kids into them. (Sometimes we jumped in too!)

I’m so grateful for simple joys like that.

Maybe your life doesn’t feel so lighthearted right now. Maybe it feels messy, uncertain, or heavy. I get that. Gratitude isn’t always easy when life feels off-kilter. But even in the chaos, we can still look for small glimpses of beauty—those tiny reminders that God is present and faithful.

Consider

As Thanksgiving approaches, pause for a moment. Look around. Notice one thing that makes you smile or reminds you of God’s goodness. Praise Him for it.

The old hymn ā€œCount Your Blessingsā€ keeps floating through my mind lately:

Count your blessings, name them one by one.
Count your blessings, see what God has done.

When you start to count, even the tiniest blessings become more recognizable.

Reflect

Ephesians 5:20 says, ā€œAnd give thanks for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.ā€

When gratitude feels hard, let worship lead your heart there.
Laura Story captures this so beautifully in her song ā€œBlessings.ā€

​Laura Story - Blessings (Live)​

šŸ™šŸ» May I pray for you?

Dear God, Thank You that Reader can find your blessings every day. You don’t hide them. Thank you for holding Reader close to your heart. In this Thanksgiving season, flood Reader with your grace and peace. Give Reader the strength to see your blessings in the imperfect and even difficult things because you are with her. May Reader’s heart overflow with gratitude for who you are—unchanging, always present, and the lover of Reader’s soul. Amen

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