When Everything Is Competing for Your Attention


“Baby, it’s cold outside.” 🥶

At times like this, I’m especially thankful for warm homes, steady heat, and cozy layers. It’s funny how easily we take those simple gifts for granted—until the cold really settles in.

When the sun hits freshly fallen snow, it sparkles. As a little girl, I was convinced there were diamonds scattered everywhere. ✨ I felt such wonder watching it shimmer. I couldn’t wait to get outside and play in those “diamonds”—making snow angels (I never quite mastered getting up without ruining them), building snowmen, and creating forts. It was pure joy… and the best way to burn off all that bottled-up energy.

Maybe these winter storms have you feeling a little stir-crazy, too. I get it. My plan is to bundle up and step outside for a few minutes each day. That fresh air lifts my spirit—even if snow angels and snowmen aren’t in the cards right now. ⛄

What’s Been On My Heart

Shiny objects—and learning how to recognize God’s voice in the middle of all the noise. Every day, you and I are flooded with messages: good opportunities, targeted ads, and subtle whispers that say, “You deserve this. Don’t miss out.” Sometimes I pause and wonder… Where is God’s voice in all of this?

In Matthew 6, Jesus speaks right into this tension and reminds us, “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.” Lately, I’ve been waiting on God’s direction about an opportunity that looks good on paper. And if I’m honest, I’ve struggled with patience. I’ve questioned what I’m hearing. I’ve wondered if it’s Him—or just my own desires talking.

But I’m learning this: when I quiet the noise and choose to trust instead of rush, God is faithful to answer. And often, His answer isn’t about the opportunity at all. It’s about what I truly need.

Something for You

  1. Last week, I sent you a resource from Colleen Stewart, “3-Step Guide to Overcome the Effects of Trauma.” Did you get a chance to download it? If not, here’s the link again.
  2. You might find yourself looking for employment options right now due to various circumstances. Check out this resource from my friend Amanda Gustafson who supports unconventional people (like us) going from “I’m in the wrong place” to “I belong” in new career directions. Today, the job application game is mechanical and full of rejection. Amanda’s focus on building connections is organic and full of possibilities. Get her resource here: 3 Step Guide to Finding a Job You Love

🙏🏻 A Prayer for You

Dear God, in this season, create wonder and delight for Reader. Provide unique opportunities to flourish. You’ve promised to meet every need for Reader, including hearing your heart and voice. Thank you for keeping that promise. Teach Reader to trust instead of rush, to pause before moving, to lean into you with complete trust. You are amazing, God. Amen.

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