We just celebrated Mother's Day in the USA. For many of us, the day generates mixed emotions: sadness, joy, fun, regret, or a feeling of loss. Or maybe you'd just rather skip it altogether.

Dave and I celebrated a bit early with his mom by spending time together. We loved surprising her with flowers that reminded us of her—bright and beautiful, much like her heart.

Whether you celebrated with joy, felt the sting of loss, or chose to avoid the day, know that you're not alone in the emotions that surface.

Consider

This month, I had the joy of writing an article for As For Me And My House Magazine, thanks to Niccie Kliegl of Fulfill Your Legacy.

Here’s the twist:
I wrote about money—a topic that often causes tension in marriages—but I approached it through a lens of celebration.

The article is titled:
“Why My Husband Loves Budgets and I Love Starbucks Runs (And We’re Still Married).”

In the article, I share this thought:
“Instead of fighting over dollars and cents, start dancing with your differences.”

It’s a real-life look at how embracing our financial differences helped us learn a new rhythm—one that respects how God wired us both.

Marriage isn’t about becoming the same. It’s about learning a new dance.

📖 [Read the free magazine here]​

Reflect

Proverbs 14:33 (NLT)

Wisdom is enshrined in an understanding heart;

wisdom is not found among fools.

A man I highly respect once shared his thoughts about having an “understanding heart.” He was eager to unpack and explore this concept further. I've been sitting with the same idea for the last few months.

How can I grow in having a heart that truly understands? One that listens, feels, and acts with compassion.

Is there a situation in your life where you could offer understanding instead of jumping to conclusions or reacting quickly? What might change if you listened more deeply and responded from a place of compassion?
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🙏🏻 May I pray for you?

Dear God, You created each of us uniquely, and sometimes those differences feel like a wall instead of a window. Give Reader the humility to pause, listen, and learn from others. Help Reader cultivate an understanding heart—especially in the places where it's hardest. And when Reader feels unseen or misunderstood, remind Reader that you understand her completely—and love her still. Amen.