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Kirsten D Samuel LLC

I empower faith-based women like you to recover well after discovering their husband's or significant others struggle with the dark places on the internet. Every Monday you'll receive encouragement and other carefully curated content to help you heal and find the freedom you desire.

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When strength feels far away…

Last week, I called my dear friend Linda. It’d been a while since we’d chatted. During that time, I admitted how weary I felt. Saying “weary” seemed dramatic, yet it was accurate. Weary means exhausted in strength, endurance, vigor, or freshness according to Merriam-Webster. In that weariness, God reminded me to come to him through another wise woman’s text message, which pointed me to Colossians 1:11-12 NLT We also pray that you will be strengthened with all his glorious power so you will...

Happy Labor Day if you live in the United States. Maybe, like me, you’re realizing that summer adventures often take more energy than they give. Dave and I discovered recently that we don’t vacation very well—most of ours have something to do with work. That’s why we declared this long weekend “Unlabor Day.” A chance to step back, breathe, and simply be. And we will plan a true vacation for 2026. 😉 Stay tuned. Consider The Breathe Again Masterclass begins on September 9. Consider joining this...

One of the cruelest side effects of betrayal is how it attacks your identity. Even if you don’t say it out loud, you wonder: What did I do wrong? Why wasn’t I enough? Friend, I see you. And I want you to hear this clearly: His betrayal is not a reflection of your worth. Consider When someone you love breaks trust, it shakes everything—including your sense of self. You might start picking yourself apart, blaming yourself, or questioning everything about who you are. But the truth is:You didn’t...

While Dave is gearing up for back-to-school, I’m stepping into something new, too. On September 9, the Breathe Again Masterclass begins. My prayer is that it will give women like you space to release the shame and pain betrayal has piled on—and take real steps toward freedom. In this small, confidential circle, you don’t have to explain why it hurts. The women beside you already understand. Imagine the relief of finally being able to breathe again—of being seen, heard, and safe. No more...

Growing up, we had people staying in our home all the time. My parents treated everyone the same, regardless of their name, status, or job title. That example stuck with me. Recently, I’ve had the opportunity to meet a few people I deeply respect for their writing and ministry. Each time, I’ve counted it a privilege to serve them as they serve others. And every encounter reminds me that, no matter who we are or what we’ve done, we all need grace. Consider This week I met Anne Graham Lotz—one...

Over the last few weeks, Dave and I enjoyed meeting new people—even though we visited several of the same places we’ve been to before. As coordinators with Inspiration Travel, we’ve explored Alaska many times over the last eight years. And yet, it never gets old. On our last trip into the fjords, our ship drifted close to the towering granite cliffs as we approached another glacier. The camera lens couldn't capture the vast beauty of the landscape. As I stood on the aft of the ship, I praised...

Some days, you’re just tired. Tired of putting on the brave face. Tired of pretending everything’s great when—behind closed doors—it hurts so much. You smile for the kids. You show up for work. You serve at church. But inside? You’re barely holding it together. I’ve been there. And I want you to know: You’re not crazy, and you’re not alone. Consider Betrayal turns your world upside down. And when no one else sees what’s going on, it’s easy to start questioning yourself: Is it really that bad?...

Here are a few pictures from our Alaska travels. No matter how many times we get to visit this beautiful country, I discover new beauty and treasures along the way. Consider Special Early Bird Offer for you! Starting September 9, I’m hosting a masterclass for women who are ready to move beyond their betrayal trauma. Watch for more details over the coming weeks. Here’s the short synopsis: ✅ Tuesdays | 10–11 AM CDT ✅ 12 weeks of practical, faith-centered help to work through betrayal trauma ✅...

Dave and I just kicked off a month-long adventure to Alaska! I’ll be sure to share some pictures soon—there’s so much beauty to soak in up here. 🌲🐻 We love traveling, meeting new people, and collecting stories wherever we go. It’s one of my favorite parts of these getaways—God has a way of surprising us through the people we cross paths with. When we get back, it’ll already be time to turn our minds toward fall. Hard to believe, isn’t it? How do you hope to spend these last sweet weeks of...

I hope you enjoyed your Independence Day celebrations this past weekend! 🇺🇸✨ In our family, we love to double up on the fun—this year we also threw in a few birthday bashes. On the 3rd and 4th, we celebrated Dave, Emily, and Craig. 🎂🎉 I happen to love Dave’s version of “man glitter.” 😍 (If you know, you know!) What a gift it is to celebrate him—and the life God has redeemed for us. We’ve made plenty of messes along the way, but by God’s grace, we get to keep learning how to serve each other,...